Order matters, as it does on a real job: a slip nut and its washer have to be on the pipe before that pipe goes into its fitting, and the nut always goes on before the washer, which sits at the pipe end. At the wall it's the other way round: the washer goes into the adapter's hub and the nut threads on over it, then the arm slides through both. Every washer's taper points into the fitting. Tighten slip nuts by hand, then a quarter turn more.